The
traditional clothing for burying the dead are tahrihim, simple
white shrouds. Their use dates back to Rabbi Simeon ben Gamliel II,
who, in the second century CE, asked to be buried in inexpensive linen
garments. According to the Talmud, Rabban Gamliel observed that the
custom of dressing the deceased in expensive clothing put such a terrible
burden on the relatives of the deceased, that they would "abandon the
body and run."[1]

The
custom he initiated - which set both a decorous minimum and a limit
on ostentation - has been followed by observant Jews ever since. "Whoever
heaps elaborate shrouds upon the dead transgresses the injunction against
wanton destruction. Such a one disgraces the deceased."[2]
The universal use of shrouds protected the poor from embarrassment at
not being able to afford lavish burial clothes. Since shrouds have no
pockets, wealth or status cannot be expressed or acknowledged in death.
In every generation, these garments reaffirmed a fundamental belief
in human equality.
Shrouds
are white and entirely hand-stitched. They are made without buttons,
zippers, or fasteners. Tahrihim come in muslin or linen, fabrics
that recall the garments of the ancient Hebrew priesthood. There is
little difference in appearance or cost between them; the funeral home
may or may not offer a choice. Tahrihim come packaged in sets
for men and women. Regardless of gender, they include shirt, pants,
a head covering, and a belt. Men may also be wrapped in a kittel,
a simple, white ceremonial jacket that some Jews wear on Yom Kippur,
at the Passover seder, and under the wedding canopy.
If
the body has been prepared for burial with ritual cleansing (taharah),
the body will automatically be dressed in tahrihim. Jewish funeral
homes and burial societies (hevra kadishas) in general have a
supply on hand, and the cost may be covered by their honorarium.
In
addition to tahrihim, some Jews are wrapped in the prayer shawl (tallit)
in which they prayed. Every tallit is tied with four sets of knotted fringes
(tzizit), which symbolize the commandment (mitzvot) incumbent
upon Jews. Before the tallit is placed on a body for burial, however,
one of the sets of fringes is cut to demonstrate that the person is no longer
bound by the religious obligations of the living. When only men wore tallitot,
only men were buried in them; today, any woman who wore a prayer shawl during
her lifetime — an increasingly common custom —
is accorded the same treatment in many communities.
Tahrihim
swaddle the entire body, including the face, so that the deceased is
both clothed and protected against the gaze of other people. If shrouds
are used, the body is placed in the coffin, which is then closed. In
Israel, it is customary to bury the deceased (except soldiers) without
a coffin.
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[1]
BT Ketubbot 8b [back]
[2] BT Semahot 9 [back] |
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 From
Saying Kaddish: How to Comfort the Dying, Bury the Dead and Mourn
as a Jew, by Anita Diamant. Shocken Books, NY, 1998.
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